Mothers lie about their kids bad habits.
Mums lie about kids' bad habits Mothers are increasingly resorting to lies  about how much time they spend with  children or how much TV viewing is  allowed in order to appear like the perfect  parents, says a new survey. The website Netmums said its survey of 5,000  people  suggested that mothers often made each other feel ' inadequate'. "Mums need to be more honest with each other," the  BBC quoted Netmums' Siobhan Freegard as saying. 66  percent of those surveyed said they had been less  than honest with other mothers about how well they  were coping and almost half covered up financial  worries. Almost a quarter of mothers admitted to downplaying  how much television their children actually watched. "It's just very difficult to put your hands up and admit  that you parent differently to your friends," said  Freegard of a mom who was exhausted and went back  to bed during the day, but explained her failure to  answer the phone as being because her hands had been covered in flour while making cookies. Netsmum has launched The Real Parenting Revolution  to encourage parents to more honest to each other  about how they live, rather than feeling bad about not living up to a myth of perfection. "It's the imperfections that make us human," Freegard  said. Parenting expert and sociologist Frank Furedi said, " Parents are always being judged in one way or another  -- including by this report. The real solution is to lay  off parents and publish less reports." Psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos said, "You're in  competition with no-one but yourself -- all you can do is the best for you and your kid."

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